You’re not confused.
You’re not weak.
You’re not dramatic.
You disrupted a pattern that once kept you safe.
Of course your system is reacting.
Self-respect isn’t just a decision.
It’s a physiological shift.
You’ve spent your life achieving, giving, and showing up for everyone else. But behind the success and the smiles, you feel
Overwhelmed by emotions you can’t seem to control.
Guilty for wanting more—more peace, more time, more YOU.
Drained by relationships where you say “yes” to everyone but yourself.
Disconnected from your true self, stuck in old stories and patterns.
Afraid of slipping back into the habits that have kept you stuck.
You don’t have to live like this anymore.
Here’s the truth: life without self-respect is a hollow victory.
What you crave isn’t more hustle.
It’s peace. It’s alignment. It’s freedom.
And it starts by choosing yourself.
We guide you on a journey to inner peace and physical vitality with personalized yoga classes and mindfulness practices designed for everybody and experience level.
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Self-abandonment doesn’t happen all at once.
It happens in small moments: Overriding your needs, absorbing guilt, keeping the peace.
This free audit will help you identify the 9 subtle ways high-achieving women lose themselves — and begin rebuilding self-trust from the inside out.
Awareness is where self-respect begins.

Dr. Kelly Kessler is a transformation coach, licensed physical therapist, and creator of the globally ranked podcast Rewiring Health™. She helps high-achieving women break free from patterns of people-pleasing, chronic overgiving, and self-abandonment so they can finally feel safe in their bodies and grounded in their truth.
As the founder of Optimal You Health and Wellness, Kelly blends nervous system regulation, inner child healing, subconscious reprogramming, and guilt-free boundary work to guide women out of survival mode and into authentic, embodied self-respect.
Her approach is both science-backed and deeply compassionate—rooted in the belief that true peace begins inside the body, not in others’ approval.
Having lived the very patterns she now teaches—overworking, absorbing guilt, reading every room but her own—Kelly offers more than expertise. She offers lived understanding. Her work helps women:
• regulate their nervous system and create inner safety
• heal emotional imprints driving fawn and freeze responses
• set boundaries without guilt or fear
• rebuild self-trust from the inside out
• shift long-held patterns of self-neglect
Featured in Authority Magazine, DailyOM, and Thrive Global, Kelly is known for her grounded guidance and relatable storytelling. Her mission is to help women reclaim their energy, honor their worth, and build lives that feel like home—aligned, peaceful, and deeply authentic.






This is your moment to break free from the guilt, exhaustion, and limiting beliefs that have held you back. Together, we’ll create a personalized plan to help you reclaim your peace, health, and happiness—and live unapologetically for YOU.

From Self-Neglect to Self Respect
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